Posted by Bea on October 12, 2001 at 13:34:55:
In Reply to: Re: Over here ... Over there..... or Utopia? posted by Elaine on October 11, 2001 at 21:43:37:
: We've come to this sort of trouble before on the board & I'm sure we will again. I'd rather take it on, you know? Part of the problem is found within the subject header - "Over Here ... Over There" as well as the fact that you feel yourself to be a minority (European on an American board). But there is NO 'here or there' on the board! There really isn't! There is a perception at times that this is the case but it is a misperception. This board is not America & it is not used exclusively by, nor intended solely for, Americans. (Even the Seven Years War was broader than that!) I think people do sometimes forget or overlook & conversations get peppered with 'we' & 'us' & 'here' etc. For the most part it is unintended, I'm sure. Nonetheless, yes, a person not living in the U.S.A. can certainly find cause for either exclusion or offense in the way things are sometimes said.
Elaine, thanks so much for your excellent response and the re-assurance above. I am one of the minorities,if you will, although I don't reside in Europe.:)I can very well understand though where Ilse is coming from and I hope from the bottom of my heart that she will return. As some of you know I have had the pleasure to get to know Ilse quite well, as she visited me twice. As Elaine said, Ilse is more than a friend, she is one heck of a person! One couldn't have a better friend..Ilse has ALWAYS been there for me.
Ilse, my fellow Dutch Trader, I hope you'll reconsider...
Tot ziens???
Bea